Zara BennettBinders + the Gender BindMy son’s transition hit me like a crisis. He came home from sleep-away camp and decided he wanted to present more masculine. I had no…Nov 17, 2022Nov 17, 2022
Zara BennettLove is a wild thingRain means snail weather. Last night, I asked my son if he wanted to hunt for snails with me. It was six o’clock, but with daylight savings…Nov 8, 2022Nov 8, 2022
Zara BennettHow to Write, Part I:Writing is a creative act. Kind of like stand-up comedy, but not always funny. Not that stand-up is funny all the time either, but you know…Nov 3, 2022Nov 3, 2022
Zara BennettQueering Cargo: Pants +Trans Teen EmpowermentSomewhere on my desk there’s a post-it with the note: Lee brand, Flex-to-Go Relaxed Fit Cargo Shorts. They are made for both women and men…Sep 13, 20221Sep 13, 20221
Zara BennettOld Friends: Befriending Anxiety + Overcoming Writers’ BlockThe sitting and working part of writing have been a problem for the last year. Or maybe more? When it comes to prolonged writers’ block…Sep 12, 2022Sep 12, 2022
Zara BennettBooks Beyond the BinaryI have the song, To All the Girls I’ve Loved Before, by Julio Iglesias running through my head — playing in a loop. It reminds me of all…May 26, 2021May 26, 2021
Zara BennettWanting Walls: Writing in the PandemicDuring this safer at home period, life has shifted. Traditional spaces for learning and for working — offices, schools, coffee shops —…Feb 4, 2021Feb 4, 2021
Zara BennettThe United States of WondermentThere is something magical about a portal. Even the name conjures up childlike excitement in me. I picture a passageway, like in C.S…Jan 23, 2021Jan 23, 2021
Zara BennettMindful Self-Compassion: Learning to Be Anchor, Boat, and SeaI have a history of working with anchors. Not the kind you throw overboard. But rather the figurative kind used to keep something hyper…Jan 20, 2021Jan 20, 2021