Zara BennettBinders + the Gender BindMy son’s transition hit me like a crisis. He came home from sleep-away camp and decided he wanted to present more masculine. I had no…5 min read·Nov 17, 2022----
Zara BennettLove is a wild thingRain means snail weather. Last night, I asked my son if he wanted to hunt for snails with me. It was six o’clock, but with daylight savings…5 min read·Nov 8, 2022----
Zara BennettHow to Write, Part I:Writing is a creative act. Kind of like stand-up comedy, but not always funny. Not that stand-up is funny all the time either, but you know…4 min read·Nov 3, 2022----
Zara BennettQueering Cargo: Pants +Trans Teen EmpowermentSomewhere on my desk there’s a post-it with the note: Lee brand, Flex-to-Go Relaxed Fit Cargo Shorts. They are made for both women and men…6 min read·Sep 13, 2022--1--1
Zara BennettOld Friends: Befriending Anxiety + Overcoming Writers’ BlockThe sitting and working part of writing have been a problem for the last year. Or maybe more? When it comes to prolonged writers’ block…4 min read·Sep 12, 2022----
Zara BennettBooks Beyond the BinaryI have the song, To All the Girls I’ve Loved Before, by Julio Iglesias running through my head — playing in a loop. It reminds me of all…5 min read·May 26, 2021----
Zara BennettWanting Walls: Writing in the PandemicDuring this safer at home period, life has shifted. Traditional spaces for learning and for working — offices, schools, coffee shops —…6 min read·Feb 4, 2021----
Zara BennettThe United States of WondermentThere is something magical about a portal. Even the name conjures up childlike excitement in me. I picture a passageway, like in C.S…5 min read·Jan 23, 2021----
Zara BennettMindful Self-Compassion: Learning to Be Anchor, Boat, and SeaI have a history of working with anchors. Not the kind you throw overboard. But rather the figurative kind used to keep something hyper…7 min read·Jan 20, 2021----